A man camp event
Thursday, Oct. 3, 4:00 pm - Sunday, Oct. 6, 2024, 10:00 am
The LOGE / Tetherow Resort
Bend, Oregon
the details
the dream
I am lucky to know lots of really good guys. Common threads that define them include generosity, a variety of interests, curiosity, and a desire to make the world better.
The dream is to get 15 or so guys like this together, to learn from one another, have a bunch of fun, and envision what might be done to change our worlds (and hence, THE world) for the better.
The hope is that putting great minds and hearts together will lead to new insights and ideas.
The ask is that we spend one morning in conversation, to brainstorm ways to better support the mental health and wellness of young adults.
Man Camp | Make Change
The idea of Man Camp started two years ago, but Covid took a big bite out of the energy. The name is meant to be cheeky way of claiming that thoughtful, like-minded, progressive guys can get together to have fun, play, learn, eat and drink.
After creating the logo, I realized that "MC" could also stand for Make Change - whether in ourselves or the world around us. This weekend is about giving you a chance to learn from others, share your insights, and take a moment to breathe.
And if you like great golf, cycling, or time in the mountains, this is the weekend for you.
Cost
- We will split all food and drink expenses (likely $300-400 / person for the 3 days), to include breakfast, dinner, and drinks. If you want a $200 bottle of Pinot for dinner, you might need to pitch in extra...
- You pay for your activity costs (golf, rentals, etc.). *Pronghorn is $200 and Tetherow is $250.
- Travel is your responsibility - although we might rent a van for getting around.
- Lodging has been pre-paid, and donations will be taken to subsidize the cost.
FAQs
With questions, or to sign up, contact Jim Brommers Bergquist: sendtojbb@gmail.com or call 781.296.6240
You will then be sent a little Man Camp swag, and the two books for the weekend.
What
who you are
Day Activities
who you are
- You enjoy laughing, learning, big ideas, and competition
- You appreciate great food and drink
- Whatever your political leanings, you find the rhetoric of the last few years disgusting, and believe our objective should be making the world a better place for everyone
- You are open minded, non-dogmatic, willing to have real conversations about all
- You enjoy laughing, learning, big ideas, and competition
- You appreciate great food and drink
- Whatever your political leanings, you find the rhetoric of the last few years disgusting, and believe our objective should be making the world a better place for everyone
- You are open minded, non-dogmatic, willing to have real conversations about all of life, and like talking about sports, music, and everything else in-between
learning
Day Activities
who you are
Part of learning happens organically, when we're out doing other things.
The weekend has a great lineup of presenters, who bring a deep knowledge of subject matter while being grounded and accessible.
We hope to explore topics and ideas that will illicit conversation as we ride bikes, eat, play golf, etc.
Note: This is not a religious event
Part of learning happens organically, when we're out doing other things.
The weekend has a great lineup of presenters, who bring a deep knowledge of subject matter while being grounded and accessible.
We hope to explore topics and ideas that will illicit conversation as we ride bikes, eat, play golf, etc.
Note: This is not a religious event, nor a testosterone fest.
We want everyone to be totally comfortable and relaxed, and it's okay if this weekend is not a good fit for you.
Day Activities
Day Activities
Day Activities
Golf:
We have group tee times at two of the best courses in Oregon:
Nicklaus at Pronghorn Club - Friday
Tetherow Resort - Saturday
And there are a multiple of courses if you want to play on Thursday or Sunday, or sneak out early on Friday morning.
Cycling
Kirk Anderson has prepared long road rides for Friday and Saturday, with a lunch stop al
Golf:
We have group tee times at two of the best courses in Oregon:
Nicklaus at Pronghorn Club - Friday
Tetherow Resort - Saturday
And there are a multiple of courses if you want to play on Thursday or Sunday, or sneak out early on Friday morning.
Cycling
Kirk Anderson has prepared long road rides for Friday and Saturday, with a lunch stop along the way.
Other Options
You can essentially choose your own adventure during the day, and with Bend nearby, there's much to do and explore.
The origin of this event
I am Jim Brommers Bergquist, and I've spent much of my life running retreats, youth programs, and small groups. I'm also a lover of sports, movies, friendship, real conversations, big ideas, collaboration, and my family.
Things were pretty easy and great for the first 45 years of my life - until they weren't... The dark cloud of depression walloped me hard - like "catching the follow through of a Barry Bonds warm up swing" hard - and I've spent the last few years figuring out ways to get back to balance. My dream is to use what I've gone through to make the world a little more manageable for others, specifically by creating programs for young adults and men in my general station in life.
Out of this experience have come a few interests and understandings::
- My empathy for those who struggle is immense. And given the chaos from the enviornment, political landscape, social media abundance, and Covid, young adults are struggling. We need to do more.
- Vulnerability and authenticity open us up to profound insight. We need people to share our stories with, and those we can learn from. Play and laughter are crucial, as are mindfulness, creative thinking, looking forward, and being kind with ourselves
- I may no longer be connected with the church, but love and community are essential - as well as cultivating a sense of spirit and wonder
- When like minded people come together, great things can occur
partners | Sponsors
The primary objective of BeWell Partners is to support the emotional fitness of youth and young adults. The hope is to do this through education, mentoring, community building, conversation, peer leadership and training, service opportunities, camps, fun, and creative expression.
Every athlete knows that gains take time. Consistency, teamwork, coaching, and perseverance leads to improvements and PRs, even if the journey is longer than desired. The dream of Ven U is to provide resources that empower college athletes to use this understanding of incremental growth in developing mental health and wellness skills.
Tetherow Resort
We will stay in rental houses on site, and provide private rooms. Our morning and evening gatherings will occur one of the homes, and dinners will vary in location.